Archive for January, 2004

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New Eating Habits (2)

January 23, 2004

(Second in the series, “Becoming a Father“)

Little by little wife changes her eating habits.

She used to eat like a bird, namely, her small stomach got filled up quite quickly. I always had to finish half of her food, in addition to my own whenever we went out to eat.

After she got pregnant, it was natural she ate more because now she would need to support the growth of the fetus. However, I wasn’t prepared for the new eating habits that she had developed.

One morning some munching noise wakes me up. I turn my head and see my wife doing something she never did before: eating crackers in bed. Here is someone who has never been fond of carbohydrates and bland food, eating crackers the first thing in the morning! Says it keeps her from getting dizzy when she gets out of the bed. So now every night before she sleeps, she puts a small pack of crackers beside her pillow. (She could have at least picked something less noisy to eat!)

The other emerging habit of hers is having these strange and difficult cravings, strange because she has never been a big fan of hamburgers, or cold soba noodles, and difficult because she wants to eat “mom’s curry rice” (her mom is currently living more than 30 hours away by plane from us) or “Brazilian bean stew” (we are in Asia where Brazilian beans cannot be readily purchased), just to name a few.

And then there are things she used to love but can’t eat anymore. The garlicky smell of stir-fried Chinese vegetables, for example, drives her nuts. And green tea – once her favorite – has suddenly become bad-tasting. Not that she is supposed to drink anything with caffeine anyway, per doctor’s orders.

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Upgraded to MT 2.661

January 22, 2004

Ok, spammers, I dare you to spam us again!

Yesterday someone spammed this site, taking advantage of a loophole in MT’s comment system by leaving spam not only as a comment of a particular entry, but the spam would actually overwrite part of the original entry. I personally lost 5 messages because of that; to stop more spamming I have upgraded to the supposedly spam-resistant MT2.661. If you run a MT 2.64 (or before) server, I urge you to upgrade immediately, available here.

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Northwest Screwup

January 21, 2004

One more airline to boycott.

Northwest Lands in Hot Water[wired news]

In case you are wondering, the other no-no airlines are JetBlue (for committing the same offense as Northwest), and Delta (for agreeing to test CAPPS-II).

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The Moment (1)

January 14, 2004

(First in the series, “Becoming a Father“)

Morning. Wife in bed, grumpy and lazy and she doesn’t want to get up.

“Oh it must be the Thai food you had last night.” I tell her.

Next morning, same thing.

“Hmm. Could it be the Chinese food last night?”

The third morning is the same. Time to get concerned.

“Ok, tonight we will just eat simple like hamburger and fries?”

Wife disagrees. She wants to go to the hospital. I drive her there and wait for her at a nearby Starbucks.

Two hours later she comes and tells me, “I am pregnant.” Suddenly my mind is three feet apart from my body; I feel dizzy as the dark Starbucks interior starts spinning with big green smiling goddesses being hurled towards me by an unknown force. Then for a brief second I feel disengaged from the world, as if shot out to space and as I reach the apex of my ascent the force of gravity from a nearby black hole pulls me back and sucks me in together with random thoughts of “what is going to happen to my life” and “I just bought a motorcycle damnit.”

And if I am to use three words to describe how it feels the first time to realize my wife is pregnant, it would be: I feel heavier. And I don’t mean it in a negative way. And my guess is that any prior expectation of the fact will not prepare one for the immensity of the moment when it arrives.

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Unemployment Rate in the US drops 0.2%

January 10, 2004

As usual, the Bush administration is all giddy over the drop in unemployment rate. Not so soon. There is a running joke in the financial community, and it goes like this: the bad news is that unemployment rate in Nov. is at 6% and there are 309,000 people out of work. The good news is that those 309,000 people are not looking for work so that the unemployment rate does not go up and remains around 6% in Dec.

And that is exactly what is happening in the U.S.

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An eye for an eye: US fingerprinting

January 9, 2004

Finally one country has the guts to challenge the silly and draconian US-VISIT system: Brazil. As mentioned before, the new US-VISIT system is a database that captures all the biometric data (fingerprints etc.) of foreign visitors from certain countries, including Brazil. Visitors from the biggest country in South America do fall into the category because, reportedly, US considers Brazil, Argentina and Paraguay a “haven for Islamic terrorists” (NYTimes). So now, to be fair, Brazil has started fingerprinting only visitors from the U.S., which has Colin Powell and the state department crying foul. This fingerprinting spat has soured the diplomatic relationship between the two countries and will be a sticky point for future negotiations.

For more on the topic, click on the NY Times link below. (Free registration required.)
U.S. and Brazil Fingerprinting: Is It Getting Out of Hand?